One of the reasons given by many motorhome owners for being motorhome owners is the ability to pee in private even on the road. Taking your own bathroom with you is, indeed, one of the reasons we wanted to RV. Your own bathroom, your own bedroom, your own kitchen – just a different backyard whenever you like. Great! But popping back for a pee while doing 70 on a 4-lane highway surrounded by 18-wheeled tractor trailers just doesn’t appeal to me. Especially when every state I’ve been in so far has been kind enough to provide many rest areas with perfectly stationary facilities. This is one reason we tow a 5th wheel instead of driving a motorhome.
There are (or certainly should be) certain rules for peeing in public. I recently posted “Men’s Room Mayhem – Number Two” (a re-blog from “Flying Here in the Middle of Somewhere”) and promised a follow up regarding us ladies. Here ’tis:
The number one rule for number one on the road is DON’T WAIT TOO LONG! Regardless of how many miles or hours your dear driver wishes to complete before day’s end, you must take a pee break while you still have the time to get out of the truck, walk to the restroom, and get those knickers down before the urge becomes the purge. You can compromise with your dear driver by minimizing the amount of coffee, juice, water, etc. you consume on travel days.
Secondly, always CHECK THAT THERE’S A GOOD SUPPLY OF T.P. before taking a seat! There are few things as awful as being stuck in a stall waiting for another lady to enter so you can beg her to pass some paper under the door. Some of you may say, “well this one’s easy as I must line said seat WITH T.P. before going further,” but I’m afraid the rest of us must remember to check. Just to be safe, I try to always carry one of those tissue purse packs you can find in any grocery store (note to Santa: they make great stocking stuffers!).
Third – and this is an important one that greatly affects the rest of us – TAKE A SEAT! I’ve seen the results of you one-leg-leaners and hoverers, so afraid of potential germs that you will not commit your skin to the plastic rim. If you cannot overcome your fears or take the time to become a seat liner (see paragraph above), at least have the decency to clean up your own splashes, drops, and puddles before you leave.
Next is NOISE. Thou shalt minimize noise. I realize many of you have never been to a public bathroom without a posse of your girlfriends, but that only works for restaurants and bars. In travel rest stops we are each alone with our bladders and our thoughts. This is not a place for conversation (which is part of why the T.P.-supply-begging situation noted in Rule 2 is so awful!). Getting in, done, and out quickly and quietly is expected.
Lastly is LOOK BEFORE YOU LEAVE! Be sure the flush completed its job, that your seat liners have been fully cleared, and the little corners of T.P. that ripped off before you could get a good, long, strip, have been flushed or put in the trash. Have you zipped up? Checked for a T.P. “tail”? Gathered your purse, sunglasses, keys, and anything else you brought in with you? Don’t forget to wash your hands. Okay, now you may leave.